Mukbang musing: Let’s limit lines for queues and roads only, please

V-lines, S-lines, whatever-lines — South East Asia is rather obsessed with looking a certain way, often shaming countrymen and women for not meeting fanatical expectations. The obsession with weight is prominent in the K-Pop industry where idols are starved or given meals that meet the bare minimum in nutrition so that they appear skinnier — well, because skinny is sexy, it seems.

However, any variety show will prove that things aren’t sexy when these manufactured role models are pitted against each other to receive meals as a reward.

The reality is harsh, but a new wave of idols, thanks to the slight freedom granted by their companies, are lashing out against unworldly expectations.

Choi Youngjae of GOT7 recently aired streamed a “mukbang”, an interactive session where one person savours meals as they speak to an audience on camera. In this live stream on Naver’s V platform, a “fan” had commented with hopes that the star loses weight. Youngjae stepped up to react to this statement, requesting the person to mind their own business in a rather candid context.

I think it was a much-needed stand. As an entertainer, idols have a certain amount of influence over their followers, and spreading messages of positivity and healthy body image is important to save an ignorant population from life-threatening meal plans and ridiculous diets.

Cheers, Youngjae!

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Kai and Jennie? How scandalous!


New Year brings new tidings; and K-Pop world’s first ship has already set sail. SM Entertainment recently confirmed that EXO’s Kai and BLACKPINK’s Jennie are dating.

Kai x Jennie

The news reeled in mixed feelings. On one side, we have EXO-Ls and Blinks celebrating, while on the other, we have the usual hate patrol that refuse to acknowledge the relationship.

Interestingly, few are also pointing out the hypocrisy surrounding idol dating news. For instance, the unnecessary hype behind Cube Entertainment’s Hyuna and E’Dawn “dating” news that had K-Poppers lining up with pitchforks. Threats came in left and right, causing Cube to drop the two artists from the label.

The HyuDawns

Why though? What was so scandalous about Hyuna and E’Dawn?

Why are fans far calmers about KaixJennie?
What are we missing here?


Thoughts?

IZ*ONE VS (G)IDLE: Who’s the real winner at MAMA 2018?


One of the season’s most awaited ceremonies of the year, that’s not one of the big three Gayos, succeeded in disappointing fans yet again. MAMA 2018 had K-poppers and netizens firing away at their keyboards to express their thoughts on the terrible system adopted by the show.

The voting
Nominated artists are selected based on a number of factors — local and international album sales, music video views on social media, public appearances, etc. — followed by the audience voting system.

The latter is supposed to give fans the power to support their beloved artists through several campaigns. Each voter creates an account on the official site in order to place a vote daily. This is applicable to all categories, except for the “Album of the Year” award, which is solely selected based on album sales and a panel of unidentified “local and foreign” judges.

What happened?

It is understandable that popular groups often end up racing head to head for several titles. However, one category, “Best New Female Artist” is what left many of us dumbstruck. The award was given to IZ*ONE, a 12-member female group that was created as a result of Mnet’s show Produce 48.

IZ*ONE battled it out with five other female rookies — NATURE, GWSN, LOONA, Fromis_9 and (G)I-DLE. But this is where it gets interesting. There is a great divide between what fans appreciate in South Korea vs international fans.

Flashbacks of a haunting experience

For instance, when I was in Seoul in December 2016, I.O.I. were glorified as goddesses. Every street down Hongdae, every corner of Myeongdong, Dongdaemun, and even the souvenir shop in N-Seoul Tower, Namsan, had their annoying Pick Me song blaring through speakers. My friend and I, who equally adore girl groups, just couldn’t comprehend the appeal behind I.O.I. The only “wow” factor in the group was the fact that these girls competed against 101 other trainees to take centrestage. But listening to “Pick Me”, or their other track, “Very very very”, was terrifying and yet it had a massive following. Now we’re not sure if their producers hold much influence across the media and population, but IZ*ONE is like the I.O.I nightmare revived.

Do they deserve the title?

Now while I do understand that the levels of appreciation vary from country to country, what I fail to understand is what exactly did IZ*ONE do to deserve the award over (G)I-DLE in the “Best New Artist — Female” category. While supporters claim IZ*ONE sold 80,000 albums since debut compared to the meagre 2,000 by (G)I-DLE, on what basis did the former earn the title? I mean, while Produce 48 has been around since June, IZ*ONE officially debuted in October. Were two months of mixed bag activities enough to earn that many album sales and a year-end accolade?

(G)I-DLE, under CUBE Entertainment, debuted in May this year and has been making strides not only in the K-Pop world, but also on the international scene with two of their lead vocalists part of the fictional League of Legends pop group, KDA. The song, POP/STARS, earned 125 million views in one month, thanks to its infectious bi-lingual melody, which is being appreciated by gamers and music lovers. Besides journeying through different genres in pop culture, the six-member group are serving as Goodwill Ambassadors in Seoul alongside other nominees for two years.

So, what we’re missing is the justification behind IZ*ONE’s win. Personally, (G)I-DLE had every possible reason to win the award. Clearly, MAMA continues to reign supreme as one of the most unfair and illogical awards programme in South Korea.

What are your thoughts?


A musician ended his life. Not the first K-Pop star to do so.

Jonghyun Kim, the lead vocalist of K-Pop boy band SHINee, committed suicide at the young age of 27 on this date (December 18) last year, shocking fans around the world, including me. According to Korean media, the star had left a number of cryptic messages prior to his death that hinted at his long-term struggle with depression, loneliness and fear of lacking talent.

SHINee’s lead vocalist, Kim Jonghyun
May his soul rest in peace

Jonghyun now joins a list of many celebrities (and residents) in South Korea, who ended their life after being driven to the edge by stress, peer pressure, harassment and low self-esteem.

According to my Dubai-bred Korean friend, Youngjae Kim, the country sets incredibly high standards for its citizens, and failing to meet them results in shame and public humiliation. “People are treated as outcasts if they’re unable to join a prestigious university or renowned company, for example. People are also expected to look a certain way — where big eyes, pursed lips, a “V-shaped” jaw, “S-line” figure and porcelain skin are desired. The way you look can easily gain you favours in a lot of situations — especially when it comes to job promotions. The pressure from society is so intense that it drives people to commit suicide,” he said.

Youngjae has signed-up for the mandatory two-year military service and is currently living in Incheon, South Korea. As someone who was raised in a multicultural environment such as the UAE, he is unable to adjust to Korea’s social norms and is looking forward to returning once he completes his service.

“Nobody likes to talk about it (depression), but it’s there. People tend to turn a blind eye because they themselves are afraid of being shunned. Visiting a therapist is almost considered taboo, as the shame of seeking help passes onto the family or creates unnecessary commotion,” he added.

According to the World Health Organisation, suicide is the fourth most common cause of death in Korea, while the South Korean Health and Welfare Ministry identifies depression and anxiety as the top reasons. The situation is so severe that its prevention is part of the 100 key policies vowed by South Korea’s President Moon Jae In, who aims to reduce suicide rates by 2020.

With Jonghyun’s case plastered all over social media, Korean society is now being forced to confront and discuss clinical depression, a topic usually swept under the rug. It is also shining the spotlight on the Korean pop music (K-Pop) industry, which is no stranger to mental, physical and sexual abuse.

The vibrant K-Pop industry isn’t as jolly and glamorous as international fans think. While I still adore the music and choreography, everything else about the scene has lost its charm. Unlike the West, where artists’ creative freedom is welcomed, Korea thrives on seasonally produced puppets (with trainees getting younger and younger, with an average age of 15) who have to follow a strict schedule — be it during work or off-work hours — as deemed fit by their employers. This also covers diet and personal relationships, with artists often seen salivating on game shows at the prospect of sampling food, or unable to see their family and friends except during special occasions or broadcasts.

Artistes often have their personal communication devices confiscated, are forced to live in cramped conditions, provided with one debit card to cover all basic expenses of the team. They are subject to inhuman working hours with no holidays, are forbidden from strolling outdoors, and quite often, have no say in the creative process of the music industry. This is just the tip of the iceberg, and based on years of closely following several court cases where renowned artists mustered the courage to legally terminate their ‘slave’ contracts.

Except for a handful who are lucky to have debuted with forward-thinking companies, others are under constant surveillance by employers and netizens alike, who are quick with criticisism at any opportunity. Hence, their lives are scripted with assigned personalities. Each member takes on a certain role and is meant to act that way — for instance, the eldest is often considered the leader with either a serious or a clumsy aura, while the youngest member is expected to act mischievous and cute for maximum fan appeal.

Fandom armies in Korea alone have formed an army of their own. In a casual conversation with a Korean friend who works at one of Korea’s entertainment companies, CJ E&M, I was told that these fans alone can make or break a group, which directly affects artistes’ lives, their schedules as well as their success. This topic crept up during my visit to the broadcast company to view the taping of a music programme. Interestingly, if there are any rumours floating about, or other fans don’t conduct themselves in a certain manner, members of each respective fandom take matters into their own hands to thwart negative news and protect their idol’s public image.

However, not all fans are the happy-go-lucky kind. The worst of them are known as sasaengs. The Korean term defines followers that go through any means necessary to catch a glimpse or attract the attention of their favourite idol. From setting up CCTV cameras in homes and parking lots to social media hacking and death threats, sasaeng fans take invasion of privacy to a whole new level.

That said, there is a strong need to address the issues that plague the K-Pop industry, encourage local and international fans to adopt an open mind, and ease artists’ burden of living a plastic life.

Farhana is a free-spirited cookie with the soul of a poet and a bank account to match